Question by sprouse0625: What will happen when my husband goes to boot camp, “A” school, and so on for the Navy?
We have three kids and are in the process of “getting in” to the Navy (we tried Air Force and Marines first, but he was too old for the Air Force and the Marines weren’t so much “family friendly”). Basically he’s been to MEPs twice but both times we have had to go home because they needed something else (medical waiver and now a dependant/financial waiver). So, after we (hopefully) get the dependant/financial waiver he is supposed to be sworn in next week. He wants to go for EOD (he made a total of 80 on the ASVAB). I am CLUELESS when it comes to this whole process and I know only the information I’ve gotten of the internet (which, for the most part, is contradicting) since his recruiter(s) seem just as clueless!
My question is what the heck are we doing?! It has been a dream of his for as long as I’ve known him to join the military so I don’t want to hold him back. But I have no idea what the “timeline” of things is going to look like. I don’t know what to expect. Where will we be (me and the kids) during each stage? How long should we expect to wait for him to get done with training (being separated from him)? Will we be able to pay our bills while he’s gone?
I can handle this. I’m not afraid of being separated from him. I want him to do what makes him happy and that is serving his country. I just need to know what to expect. I’m a planner and I can already see that that is not how things work in the military.
If anyone can give me an idea of what I am to expect while at home with the kids that would be great. The good, the bad, and the ugly is welcomed. I don’t want to go into this naive.
Best answer:
Answer by Ray J
when he leaves for boot camp, he’ll be gone for about three months, and you will still be at home with the children. once he gets through boot, the will go to his A school (for his job). depending on the area around where EOD training is done, they might have base housing, so you will be able to be back with your husband (not totally sure about this one.) the first paycheck may be a little small (while he is in boot camp), but once he gets to the training command, pay will be on a more regular schedule. while he’s at training, you will be the main one caring for the kids.
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